Showing posts with label better half. Show all posts
Showing posts with label better half. Show all posts

Saturday, March 4, 2023

New Beginning


So here I make a comeback, after a really long gap 

trying to summarize my 3 years, to all my near and dears

come the lockdown of March 2020, there was work just more and plenty

the concept of work from home and work of home

was so new to digest, it took almost 3 months to adjust

just like old most everyone else, we also became MasterChefs

nights of Netflix and surfing, and mornings of ‘Surf’ and mopping

Spent long hours in the day working, taking breaks in between for cooking and cleaning

that was also a time for introspection, and we took a major life changing decision

to become three from two, as we were also near touching 32

And after that the story of the 9 months ahead, which were made easy by husband being the best

bouts of nausea and missing Mumma

regular doctor visits and advice on eating nutritious

creating positive thoughts to learning squats

getting to meet family after long,

that moment I wanted to forever hold-on

attending to regular scans waiting to hold those tiny hands

As the time was coming closer, my breathing getting heavier

the nights felt longer, with the belly growing larger

still remember the last few days, I had my last scan on a Saturday

the doctor said I could start preparing for the D-day

it was that final scan that showed those tiny ears and nose

the face you view so up-close

it was the best family time ever, playing cards after each dinner

the week went by and came another Saturday

another visit to the gynae, she told me the baby is slowly creating its way

but you didn't need to stay, come to me another day

That night was different, as the clock struck twelve

We all wish our mommy “a birthday special”

wrapped up our rummy game and went into our dens

later in the night started the final countdown,

counting contractions every 10 minutes down

I prepared my bag and gathered my medical file

woke up everyone as it was beyond time

we reached the hospital early in the morning

and few hours later welcomed “my new beginning”

 


Sunday, February 16, 2020

Gathering strength from within


Getting strength from within


They all think its happy life
Just husband and wife
Living in a foreign land
Distant to mom and dad
Our worries are lesser
And days are merrier
It is just their perception
The reality is very different!

We are just two people living for, and by each other!
It isn’t easy to be just by ourselves in every weather
Less are the friends and lesser family
Still our days are very busy
Eighteen hours of office and sleep
Only six hours to personally reap
And if there is any further energy left
We fulfil our personal quest
You don’t often hear anything new from us
Cos ours are very fixed routines
The city clocks tick faster than yours
And we are submerged in never ending chores
We don’t share much
Cos you are sooo far to touch
We have grown stronger over the years
Sharing things would only make it worse
Why add to your worry
With our problems of sardi and garmi
The feelings just subside
In the chime of phone dial
Don’t let the happy talks deceive you
We are as human as you
Yes, we do enjoy this freedom
However, there is enough boredom
The festivals last short
Meals not spread vast
No one to pamper after a long day
Wish for longer you would stay
Every time we say ‘Goodbye’
The heart questions Why?
To everyone who thinks we are thick skinned
Its only cos we gather our strength from within!

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Little Story - 2 :)


It’s time for the next sprint
No we aren’t talking about tequila and mint
When the daughter grows big
Parents start the jig
Of finding the perfect match
Whom we call the‘better’ half
They finally asked me my choice
By then I had lost my voice
Few words I could write
I know it wasn’t all right
There’s so much I hold in my heart
I don’t know where to start
It struck too late
To use the pen at length
To share my deepest feelings
And overcome my fearing
As excited as I am about living with my hubby
I don’t want to go away from my family
The independent person that I have become
I am still willing to dance to his drum
With him I want to fly
Into the thickest of the skies
Who can handle my mood swings
And lets me have my own wings
I need him to be a friend
Till the end
To hear the unsaid
To love me beyond the bed
Add me to his speed dial
Come home always with a smile
Party every weekend
With family and friends
Engrave our love forever
And hurt each other never
Share our joys and pain
Get wet in the rain
Who’d make me feel special
Like I am the only one essential
Be with me on the darkest nights
Sail through the most terrible fights
Who’d understand the reason behind my silence
Who’d allow some silent tears even without violence  
Be part of my dreams
And encourage my day dreams
Eat what I cook
Read to me, my favorite book
Who can apply nail polish on my left
And is always at the gentleman’s best
Lend me your shoulder to sleep
And your handkerchief to weep
Learn some salsa with me
Walk together by the sea
Raise our kids like the perfect dad
Promise, never at them will you get mad
Spend time with my kin
Be with them through thick and thin
Let our hearts fill with love
And hope it stays forever as pure as a dove
And I ask for all these
Because for you too, I will be...
A partner for life
The better half, wife!!! <3